Have you been hiding secrets, keeping everything to yourself these days? I guess everyone got their secrets. But has all secrets gotta be… secrets?

Have you ever felt, you’re being kept in the dark, about somethings, then when you somehow got to know the secret, it’s all too late? Well, I’m not implying on any secrets, say, “I bought a mentos, I’m gonna hide it from my friend later so he doesn’t know I bought it”. These secrets are nothing compared to those that’s gonna change your life in one way or another, simply put, BIG Secrets.

My question is, MUST (note) there be secrets in a relationship? It’s true that truth hurts, but why would anyone choose to hide the truth instead? Wouldn’t it be MUCH MORE (note) hurtful when the truth spills? Say you, who’s reading this article right now. Would you OR have you hide secrets from your love? If yes, how would you feel if your love is the one being untruthful to you? Probably some might say: “oh, he got his reasons, as long as he knows what he’s doing”, but really? What IF he doesn’t know what he’s doing? (e.g he slept with another woman/man and got all guilty, and decided to keep it a secret) would you rather accept that he kept it from you (and somehow you found out), or you wished he had told you?

Secrets always starts small, and it grows day by day, Why not start telling the one you love, all those secrets you’ve been hiding in your heart, and make him accept for whoever you are, BEFORE it’s too late (note). Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.

Wouldn’t you say, a relationship with 100% truthfulness is better than one filled with secrets? Think about it.